I'm a licensed psychotherapist in S. California, with 25 years experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 11 books, including "It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction" (New Page)" "How to Be a Couple and Still Be Free"(New Page) and "The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again"(Wiley) I also publish an e-mail newsletter: “Happiness Tips from Tina” and hosted a weekly hour long radio show:"The Psyche Deli: delectable tidbits for the subconscious." I am an online expert, answering questions at www.CouplesCompany.com and Yahoo!Personals at http://personals.yahoo.com/us/static/content_date. I have two new books coming out from Adams Press in 2007: "Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Squabbling About the Three Things That Can Destroy Your Marriage" and "Commuter Marriage"